At the age of 28, my life was a mess.  I was running around in circles trying to help and please everyone and fix other peoples problems.  I was in an abusive relationship, I had money but was running through it like water and I was depressed.

Though I knew why, I had no idea how to get to the next step.

  By the grace of Spirit, I had an amazing woman in my life who paid for me to go to therapy.  This was the start of me finding my voice and learning to appreciate the real me.

  Although a continual work in progress, I have found that I am perfected imperfection.

I see your wheels turning, so I'll explain.

I am love, I am light, I am  peace, I am harmony, I am confusion, I am grace, I am fantasy, I am creation, I am dynamic, I am a little bit of 'fck you and so many more things wrapped into a big crazy ball of wonderment that is not to be explained or equaled, but more than anything, I am perfect.

Not perfect in the eyes of what society deems perfection to be, but perfectly me.

I accept that there is only one me, that there is no one on this earth exactly like me and that makes me perfect.

I no longer compare myself to others or strive to live up to anyone else's expectations.

I am unapologetically me.

This path to self realization, is the Figaro effect.

  My goal is to guide you to a place of self acceptance which in turn will teach you how to let go of your past so that it doesn't hinder your today.

  I hope that this brief insight into my own life and purpose helps you to see me, so that I can help you to see and accept yourself.

Welcome to the Figaro effect